Farewell and reunion 分离与相聚
As i look back, its been quite a while since i attended a farewell dinner..To be exact, probably three years ago..when i bid farewell to a very dear friend mediaworks. Since then, i haven’t attended any sort of a farewell thingy,probably because the pain and saddness is just…too much to bear. however, this fateful day came again, when one of my dear colleague left her job and once again, farewell reared its ugly head.
so a bunch of us decided to give her a farewell dinner..perhaps a soft wrap to our years of being together.everyone seemed jolly..perhaps that was just a facade to mask the saddness inside. We appeared happy..photograph taking, tons of laughter,mountains of jokes,plentiful of bitchings…we appeared ..happy. As i took a lingering look at our group i wondered..why is it that it took a farewell dinner to bring us together? what happened to all those time when time is abundant and there isn’t the ominous departure lurking in the air? That we could have done things ever so differently..perhaps sharing more, treasuring the company?
But, my dear friends, not all farewells are allowed sweet reunions..Some farewells..well..they are forever…..So perhaps, from this day,from this moment we learn the meaning of Carpe diem( seize the day)..we learn how to cherish what we have, whom we have and the tangible friendship/kinship that is in our lives, that we learn how to cherish each and every moment time allow us too because, just one day, just one fine day, it will cease to be ours..ever..again…
My dear friend teletubs..thank you ……
on September 1st, 2007 at 11:01 pm
以前我和朋友分开的时候会很舍不得,因为我们共同拥有太多的回忆,太多的快乐.可是中国有句话叫”天下无不散之宴席”,叫我们向前走,不要回头.
回忆是美好的,回忆让我们懂得珍惜.朋友是永远的,他会在你悲伤的时候对你说:”来,肩膀借你靠一会儿…”可是,剩下的路还要我们自己走,可能会孤独,可能会寂寞…可是朋友的祝福会永远跟随你…
on September 2nd, 2007 at 12:24 am
I believe this farewell may be another phase of friendship starting… Not to mention how much you all have gone thru together, but it can means a lot to each individual people in your grp.
^v^
on September 2nd, 2007 at 2:35 am
人往往等到失去后，才后悔。。
要懂得珍惜现在。
on September 2nd, 2007 at 2:37 am
So sad.. by the way, who is the colleague that left her job? i guess is the one that is in between felicia chin and quan yi fong.. did i guess correctly?
on September 2nd, 2007 at 2:09 pm
友人分离会很不舍，但分离不代表永别，还有很多机会相聚。
凡是乐观一些，自己也会开心很多。
on September 2nd, 2007 at 2:15 pm
the ad genius who created `不在乎天长地久，只在乎曾经拥有`（朱家鼎 aka 钟楚红’s husband）had also just bid his farewell to this world. ironically, the only `eternity` in this world is `constant change + no eternity`.. somehow, things just never work on the schedule we planned it to be.
so my dear friend, cherish and be cherished. you will never know how much more time you are left to say those words you plan to say `tomorrow`.
on September 2nd, 2007 at 8:44 pm
so sad man.. anyway.. is true.. is really let us learn how to cherish what we had..
on September 2nd, 2007 at 9:13 pm
没有分离哪有重聚.
分离不会使我悲伤.因为分离后,当初的一切都将是我记忆中最美好,最温馨的.
on September 2nd, 2007 at 9:23 pm
每一次有同事离职为他们送别，我都是替他们开心多过不舍，因为那表示他们有了更好的选择，找到了新的方向，离自己的目标又前进了一步。
我们不也无时无刻盼望着自己也赶快有那么一天，能够潇洒地离开，并且希望到时自己也是开开心心地接受着同事们的祝福而道别吗？况且如果是朋友的话，也不会因为不再共事而减少联络。同事离职的farewell，怎么也比不上，向一个有生之年再也无法再见的人或物道别那么痛心。
珍惜还存在的人、事、物。至于已经无法挽回的，除了深深怀念之外，也要学会放下。（虽然这说比做难得多，毕竟我们都是凡人啊。。。）
懂得思念，也证明我们是实实在在付出过感情，真正有血有肉有情感的人。我们大可为自己不时想念起我们失去过的东西，感到骄傲。
on September 2nd, 2007 at 11:15 pm
SORRY..一直都在辜负哥哥用心写的美文….绝对不是有意的喔…真的看不懂…..
还好,今天懂了个标题,呵呵..知道了文章的主题
哥哥还有怡凤姐姐,想问问你们啊….我们大陆的朋友以后如果有机会可以去新加坡的话,,,可以去找你们吗???能见得到你们吗????需要办什么相关的手续呢????听说明星可不是FANS想见就能见到的,,,哥哥,怡凤姐姐,还有钟琴姐姐,,想见到你们难吗???
on September 2nd, 2007 at 11:28 pm
somebody thinking of a certain person? Farewell is only a procession.. whereby memories are forever..
Cheerz!
=)
on September 3rd, 2007 at 10:41 pm
just passing by….
LOL!
hahahaha…
see you really soon…
on September 5th, 2007 at 9:48 am
超级超级大难得!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
我太感动了拉!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
哥,,,,我今天一开你这里,,,就看到许多的图片了…以前你发的照片，我一张都看不到的,,,今天一开你的BLOG,就看见拉…………….哈哈!!!!!!!!!!!!!~~~~~~~~~太高兴了拉!!!!!!!!!!!!!
哥,,,你还没回答我上面问的问题喔……???快来回答下拉……
on September 6th, 2007 at 12:01 am
hi hi bryan.. i forgot to ask permission whether can link you in my blog and i link you le, oops, sorry. now i will ask permission, bryan can i link you in my blog? =)
on September 6th, 2007 at 8:24 pm
well said =) some farewell are indeed.. forever….
on September 6th, 2007 at 8:25 pm
禄江哥哥，这几天都在忙些什么啊？
on September 6th, 2007 at 8:39 pm
To shujuan: My pleasure…
To 西： 在忙着做一些无聊的事。。。。
on September 6th, 2007 at 9:43 pm
太刺激了!我偷偷从大学学校里跑回家(还好新生暂时没课)就是为了能够看看你的博客有没有增加什么新的东东—好像没有啊…我要军训了,可能要好一阵子不能来看看你写的东西了,好失落啊… 会想你的…你会记得以前有个麦兜天天来”烦”你吗?
on September 7th, 2007 at 10:50 pm
Hi Bryan,
How are you doing? Haven’t been seeing you around in mediacorp…are you on leave? hahaha…I thought you went overseas again…
on September 7th, 2007 at 11:14 pm
Hi, im teddi.
been to ur bao jia’s wedding scene and i felt u look so fierce that i dont dare to approach u and chat with him..
hope there’s a 2nd chance to meet u
meanwhile, take care okays? hehe.
on September 8th, 2007 at 6:21 pm
Sometimes, a farewell may turn out to be a new beginning. Some farewells, we never want, but still go through it. It’s all part of Life yeah. Anyway, we never know how much to cherish people ..
on September 8th, 2007 at 6:53 pm
我回來了（哥哥） ！ LANGKAWI 果真是一個鳥不生蛋的地方 ！ 不過我還是很喜歡, 總比出國看人, 在新加坡給人看好！你說是吧！
on September 9th, 2007 at 7:54 pm
Hi Bryan!I am Sean,remember that guy who went for the event at hougang mall to see u and AH MOK?haha yeah. My first time here viewing ur blog,i think u should get used to such things because this is life.Don’t be so sad alright?Stay happy always!U seems to be quite sad lately leh haha.Cheer up and stay positive always like AH MOK! =)
Regards,
Sean
on September 9th, 2007 at 10:13 pm
哥哥你也太 ”混” 了吧 ! 人家都為了你從學校偷跑回來 , 就是要看看你有沒有發表新的文章 , 你居然到現在整整要 10 天了 , 連 ”屁” 都沒有放一個 ！！！實在是太不應該了！我知道你忙 , 貴人事多 , 要不你請個槍手來幫你嘛 ! 請我喽～～～～～ ？
on September 10th, 2007 at 12:22 am
明天就开学了，今天来着做个告别．心里真的很不舍，盼了两年，好不容易得到禄江哥哥开博客．愉悦的心情到现在还没平复，学业就这样无情的拉走了我．我读的是军队院校，不可以随便上网．不知道什么时候才可以再来．不过没关系，等我下次来的时候一定会把禄江哥哥所有的文章一一看完，并留下我的足迹．希望禄江哥哥不要忘记西域冰灵这个名字．
我会听你的话，在学校一定会好好学习，做到一流水平．不会虚度光阴．．．．．想念你！！！
on September 10th, 2007 at 1:16 pm
hihi bryan!
is that photo taken using ur camera?
can you tell me what’s the cam model?
v sharp and colours v nice!
on September 10th, 2007 at 9:44 pm
咦?哥哥好久没有发文章了嘛,最近很忙吗?再忙也要注意身体哦,要多休息哦~休息的时候就来发发文啦~呵呵
on September 11th, 2007 at 9:29 am
wah u win me in procrastinating leh… lost interest in blogging liao ah? hee.. looking forward to your next post! dun tire yourself out wor… take care~
on September 11th, 2007 at 4:01 pm
hi bryan, so long didn’t update your blog. You busy doing 什么无聊的事? me just curious+kepoh only.. hahas.. =)
on September 15th, 2007 at 7:27 pm
oh..吖..
冰灵..哥哥又回袮话了..555..什么时候禄江能写”to jessie”啊?
忙着做一些无聊的事情麽?
我们都开学了…不适应啊…每天都是重复一件事–上学..
禄江打算再拍戏,拍些什么样的角色啊?
on September 15th, 2007 at 11:14 pm
To Jessie,
想演一个很冷又坏的角色。。 好好上课吧。。把书念好，很快就可以自由了。
on September 16th, 2007 at 12:57 pm
哎..终于回了~~呵呵..谢谢哥哥!
我会努力的…
以后不能常来了哦..学习很紧张的..
快中秋节了..祝你中秋快乐!!!
别忘了我们啊~~
on September 16th, 2007 at 4:55 pm
哥哥，你已经演了一个类似的角色了。。。
象聊斋里的，象零楼里的，都是有点类似哥哥说的角色的啊。。。
哥哥，我想说的是，你演什么我都喜欢看呢。。。。真的。。。
裴涵，对哥哥决不撒谎的。。。。
on February 20th, 2008 at 8:51 pm
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on December 8th, 2009 at 3:07 pm
Carpe diem……
live for right now….
so many moments for us to treasure…
the life is too short….
maybe one day i can walk with God in heaven, but i prefer stay in this world with you all…