OVERWHELMED!
Hooo!
Hooo!Hoooooo!Hoooo!
Not making much sense am i ?.that i am..not making much sense. This is just so overwhelming… I thank all of you with all my heart ..really… This is all just..well..too much for my heart to bear. I wanted so much to think that i am alone..to wallow in self pity and resignation..but you guys came along and swept me off my feet with your kind words …letting me feel the need to un trap myself.
Just to let you guys know that your words are working wonders..am trying rather hard to pick up the pieces and move on..yesterday i went to the salon and had a haircut,something that i usually do when i am down or feeling really unlucky, for i believe that when you snip off your hair you get rid of some of the problems thats making you fret…also covered the white hairs that seemed to overtake the black ones on my head….
amazing isn’t? You have two complete strangers(in a certain way).. One poured his pathos and the other promptly,unconditionally offered words of encouragement and wisdom, so that the former could just get back on his feet and be whole again.
人间是有温情的。。
I am now still trapped..but trapped in a good way… trapped into a situation whereby i have to move on and be me again not just for myself but for many of you…..
i thank you all once again for your kind words …
i thank you all..for walking with me……
on October 7th, 2007 at 7:40 pm
BRYAN, jiayou!
=))))
on October 7th, 2007 at 8:07 pm
=)) loves loves
on October 7th, 2007 at 9:13 pm
New hair, new week, sounds good.
Life is 10% what you make it and 90% how you take it.
Quote Albert Einstein, “Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value.”
Have a good week ahead!
Ryan’s mom
on October 7th, 2007 at 9:13 pm
Bryan…
great to hear that.
Like what I said previously, walking along this life journey, we all just gonna spur one another on.
If possible, let us know ocasionally every now and then…how are you feeling day-to-day. =)
Myself and many others are all behind you.
Think positive. Keep telling youself this: “没有什么事会难倒我王禄江的！！！！我可以的！”
With a sober, clear mind, I believe you can solve your problem(s) one day.
on October 7th, 2007 at 9:35 pm
Hi Bryan,
Very happy to see this blog of yours. Just want to say Jiayou, look ahead of you and think positive. This is what we are here for: To encourage each other along the hard route to move on when one is down… who knows? Maybe we will need ur encouragement somedays too as our life will have ups and downs …
on October 7th, 2007 at 9:48 pm
现在感觉好点了吗？有没有振作起来了呢？无论在哪里，我们可都会一直支持你的哦．
（我终于能看见你博客里的图拉！撒花～～＾－＾）
on October 7th, 2007 at 10:02 pm
Yah!You’ll never walked alone!!!
Add more Oils! There is always a Day Break after long dark night!
Wake urself up tomolo morning at7am! see the sun rise,take a deep breath! everything is going to be fine.
解鈴還是繫鈴人!
from ur blog, i think u already work out the solution somehow, just that u cannot accept somehow y u must step back this round. Well, that’s life.. 退一步, 海阔天空..!
set ur own limit, so that others wont take it for granted!
Life is short,no one can predict wat will happen next. So long u think u tried ur very best,then that’s it .So, Cherish watever u have now, go on with it. share all ur joys with ur family n friends. That’s should be the way we maintain our life.
Cheers ,
Take care.
on October 7th, 2007 at 10:15 pm
Yeah, that’s the right way…thank you for picking up yourself once again. To see u happy is also my job. I hope you will have victory in your coming future.
Remember to always stay positive, because that is the best way to keep yourself happy.
Stay Happy always!
on October 7th, 2007 at 10:16 pm
Oppps…correction…To see you happy is also my JOY….hehehe…
on October 7th, 2007 at 10:46 pm
Hello Bryan, once again,
Great to see you opening up your heart (: Really happy that your mindset changed, be more optimistic ya?
Trapped, but in a GOOD way. Hahaha, very nicely phrased (:
Love you & God bless,
Jiawen
on October 8th, 2007 at 12:14 am
Hi Bryan,
I think the ability to accept things that come along our way isn’t easy. (Jia You!)
No matter what is bothering you, glad you’ve decided to let it go.
I’ve always believe: What is meant to be, will mean to be.
Everything happends for a reason, isn’t it?
Try to look at things from different perspectives and life will be more meaningful.
You still have a long way to go. Ganbatte alrite!
on October 8th, 2007 at 12:30 am
=) new haircut = new start wor!
Kai Xin Jiu Hao~~
Cheerz!
on October 8th, 2007 at 1:05 am
Hi Bryan,
good to hear that, looks like you hv found yr source of strength.
Jia You!
May the Buddha, Dharma n Sangha bless n protect u with Good health, strength, wisdom n happiness!
on October 8th, 2007 at 4:39 am
Indeed, a haircut 剪掉了三千烦恼丝，but whatever it is, do be strong. Look on the bright side and start moving on. I’m sure things will get better… good luck!
on October 8th, 2007 at 4:46 am
Glad to noe tat u r not feeling down anymore..try to think positively n throw away all the negative stuffs off ur mind..n lastly, smile more..u look good when u smile. ^-^
on October 8th, 2007 at 10:04 am
good that you are on your way out…but i m still trap and sinking deeper and deeper…all those methods didn’t work at all or just a while and like i say , a little “thing” eg lie, hypocrite act will trigger off !!! i believe all those who say or encourage you here are out of sincerity (that’s “stupid and naive” who will always tink that ppl are gd and sincere….but…now…on the other will “doubt” and “believe” at the same time and that’s make me go bersek!!HOW????)….but in reality, you MAY not be able to find one to confide (out of all?)….because ppl changes and is easier to “type” to encourage….
on October 8th, 2007 at 11:12 am
用勇气、用智慧、用宽容、用慈悲。。则一切可慢慢化解。
但别只是为了他人而奋斗，要为自己。
ok？
on October 8th, 2007 at 11:13 am
Hi Bryan,
It’s great and glad you pick yourself up. Remember not to give up yourself too easily.
Don’t let the negative thoughts bring you down. When it’s time for to unwind yourself, do it.
See ya…
Cheers,
Gin
on October 8th, 2007 at 12:57 pm
Hi Bryan
I have wanted to give you words of encouragement but too bad, I am not good at words. Anyway, glad to know that at least you have picked yourself up and go on.
In life, we need friends. We help one another, if not, then life is not worth living for.
We are behind you. Jia you.
on October 8th, 2007 at 1:16 pm
yeah bryan! jia you! gald to see you feeling better already…
jia you! we are always walking with you!
on October 8th, 2007 at 2:01 pm
Hi Bryan,
I wrote this in Yifeng’s blog too some time ago. Whatever u do, juz make sure its not against the law; not backstabbing anyone; not hurting anyone mentally or physically; and most importantly u n ur loved ones r happy, other people happy or not, not important lah! How to please everybody. Can die very early u know? Cheerios!
FYI, i call myself Blur Queen not bcos i really blur u know? Juz act blur only. Not a bad thing right? Life so short. Y b so hard on yrself right?
on October 8th, 2007 at 4:24 pm
Just had a look at your previous entry on feeling “trapped”. Unfortunately for me, I can fully empathise with you. I know exactly what you are going on about. That’s right, I am a fellow “trapee”.
Some parts of your posting really struck an extra loud chord with me – when you mentioned that we are our worst enemies, that there are alternative routes which we are simply refusing to take…and also, the part when you figured that not even repainting and redecorating your room can get you out of the trench.
I guess the problem is, and I don’t know if I am just speaking for myself or if I can say the same for you, the problems that set off this “trapped’ feeling are very real – that is, they are not some itsy bitsy minor issues that just happened to catch us at a bad time, or a low mood that we know will pass in a few days.
In my case, there are not really any b-i-g issues that are making me miserable, nor am I anywhere near being seriously depressed. It’s just that there are some principal thoughts to figure out before I can move on with the confidence that I know where I am going, and more importantly, why I am even thinking of going there in the first place. Until then, besides feeling trapped, I also feel like I have one foot on the accelerator and one foot on the brake…and that’s a very lousy feeling.
I am trying my best to work in a good dose of positive vibes into my psyche while I work out my life…and I hope you are making good progess in your quest to become un-trapped too!
All the best to you…and perhaps, you know, we are just going through one of those infamous quarter/mid/whatever-life crises!
CHEERS!!! ; )
on October 8th, 2007 at 7:41 pm
嗨！！glad to see you are more positive now
remember >> 明天会更好
加油哦！
on October 8th, 2007 at 7:42 pm
hope that you will be TRAPPED!!!
MUAHAHA~
but in HAPPINESS~
in short,trapped in happiness!
^^
on October 8th, 2007 at 8:52 pm
I’m glad you could walk out of that.
on October 8th, 2007 at 9:11 pm
Yo man check this out
From the shadow pix, i sense someone whom have found life worth living for and willing to just embrace it and give it another try, life is like that, fall, pick up oneself, walk, fall……as long as one is still living in this mundane world, its a cycle that keeps itself turning and turning and the fear comes when one falls down and refuses to pick oneself up and sub-consciously falls into yet another chasm of self-pity and sorrow.
I’m like that sometimes, but i will harness the feeling or emotion (layman terms) now and in control of what i need and want to accomplish at the present moment. I hope that God will somehow grant me strength each new day to look forward to the new challenges that the day brings forth to me.
Just my senseless thoughts….
Keep up the good work which is inside of you…
Valkrieangel
on October 8th, 2007 at 9:37 pm
When you wake up every day, says today is a beautiful day!
And it will be a wonderful day for you and everyone around you. The effect is contagious as happiness in oneself can spread to others.
If one has frustration, go to the hill top and shout out! It will be a great relief in doing so. Remember, life is always filled with excitement and interesting things when we open our eyes to see them positively.
You are always the best!
on October 8th, 2007 at 9:44 pm
hey valkrieangel,
interesting that you saw that in the shadow pic.. me felt the same about the pic too!
on October 8th, 2007 at 9:48 pm
dear depressed,
when we are feeling down and out it is quite natural for us to be skeptical of ppl’s words and more often than not we tend to veer off towards the negative thoughts..sigh..but we are only human ya? i don’t know how to advise you on how to lift yourself out of your depression..but thru me perhaps you mught see a soul who is trying to reclaim his life…ya?
on October 8th, 2007 at 9:53 pm
禄江
我是无意中看你的blog.
我们不认识，也不知道为什么你难过。我只想说当我感到寂寞的时候， 我会看看和朋友与家人的照片，回味，回想。想到开心的时候就笑， 难过的时候就哭． 多数的时候，我哭比较多！哈哈！只想告诉你，ｙｏｕ ａｒｅ ｎｏｔ ａｌｏｎｅ． 每个人都有不开心的时候，我们是要经历这些才会长大，ｒｉｇｈｔ？ Ｗｉｓｈ ｙｏｕ ａｌｌ ｔｈｅ ｂｅｓｔ ＆ ｌｅｔ＇ｓ ｂｅ ＳＴＲＯＮＧ！ ：）
on October 8th, 2007 at 10:25 pm
dear bryan, i’m glad that you sound postive in this post!
Jia you ! you are always the best … i’m sure everyone will support you ..
p/s : Dun let us worry okie ..
on October 8th, 2007 at 11:59 pm
Life is what we make it, always has been, and always will be.
Worrying about something which you can do nothing is not fruitful.
If all else fail, professional help is needed.
http://schools.moe.edu.sg/jj/PCCG/Self-HelpMaterials/Helplines.htm
http://www.hpb.gov.sg/hpb/default.asp?pg_id=1076
Church of St Ignatius; Father Colin Tan: 64697356
Concerned, Ryan’s mom
on October 9th, 2007 at 12:54 am
Glad to hear that u feel better..Take gd care and continue to jia you!
on October 9th, 2007 at 10:06 am
Hi Bryan, I am really really touched when I saw your encouragement to me!!!! Thanks!!! How I wish my friends can understand…but they will only when they are in “trouble”/”sad”….i agree that what you said but like you said “..but we are only human ya?” this is definitely solid fact. I really don’t want to be negative but the solid evidence and facts keep “showing up”…I don’t know and very afraid that i will lost confidence and trust in all ppl!! I am really fearful because if is repeated continuously because as they told me “living in this world, there is no choice that ppl have to be like that” !! Could anyone advise me on how should i “treat” ppl, especially when those so called “good friends” or even jus normal friends (or even you) show “little” concern, i will be very touched and will believe and give me best and trust…..Thats my good but also bad point….maybe you or anyone can “teach me exactly on how we should “be people”….even when i tell a little white lies, i feel like admitting at times even though i am really good at keeping secrets for ppl….
Bryan, hope we can get out and also all those who are feeling likewise.
on October 9th, 2007 at 3:19 pm
everyone would have a rough patch or more to encounter, in time to come it would pass and when you look back, you would realise how much stronger you grew.
I am a fan of urs , watching every show and variety prog you hosted, and you were my source of joy, seeing the smile that you have on screen. you always have a thing to make the audience laugh and smile, being their source of joy as well & hw i wish i am able to have that talent of urs, and make u smile. rmb, bryan is #1.
reading this post, i thank god, you are feeling better and more positive.
i know its hard to trust a stranger you never met before, but trust me this once, bryan is one tough guy, he walk through this tough time.
he would shine and sparkle once again, not only in his own life, but touching others lives as well. Im certain you would pick urself up , and become stronger in the process.
Its alright to feel bad once in a while, to cry once in a while OR even to feel trap once in a while, BUT.. one must also learn to walk out the badness, the tears and the trap. When things seems to go wrong, be at ease (thou not easy) cos God is at work, he ‘s blessing you in ways you cannot see..
god blesses.
on October 9th, 2007 at 6:22 pm
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on October 9th, 2007 at 10:18 pm
Hi “Bu lai en”,
Knew tat u will not disappoint us, seeing u trying to untrap urself somewhere or another, know u tat are trying veri hard…. At least u are not feeling tat bad aft all now.. Follow ur heart, we guys will walk with u thru the road, up the hills wherever it is…
luv & bless
on October 9th, 2007 at 10:37 pm
Isn’t it good this way then? In a way, you’re still trapped. But then, you’re slowly making your way out of the tunnel, into light once again. Everything takes time I suppose. And yours perhaps, is taking longer than others. But one day, you’ll reach that light at the end of the tunnel.
有些是天已经为我们安排了，有些呢，我们是能改变的.
Jiayou, you can do it~ (: Have Faith in yourself, and in your determination to get .. un-trapped : )
on October 9th, 2007 at 11:56 pm
哥哥 : 我知道 , 也明了你為什麼心情不好 ! 但是請原諒我不會安慰你 ! 不是我幸災樂禍 , 是每當我想起你的 “臉” 想要安慰你時~~~~~我就想笑 !!! 你帶給我太多歡樂 ! 想到你~~~~~就是 “笑” ! 你瞧你多厲害 !
要不你回過頭看看你自己 , 想當年我們年輕的時候做過多少 “傻” 事 , 幹過多少無聊的是 ! 出國 等海龜生蛋 燈罩 婚紗展 水上芭蕾………………! 這些只有我們懂得笑話 , 一切多無憂無慮多簡單多開心………..我以前的哥哥到那裡了 ?????
on October 10th, 2007 at 8:13 am
did i hear you correctly that you want to let it go, but don’t know how to? if u can’t let it go, it cld be due to a fear or it is a dear stuff. ask yrself what’s the fear or why not losing it. why so? is it just yourself or external factors? how are you going to move on?
on October 10th, 2007 at 2:00 pm
hello bryan!
impossible is nothing!
and i hope you walk out of this trap sooooon.
you can do it [:
teehee.
all the best!
ANNA`
on October 10th, 2007 at 2:26 pm
I leave the message below in quan yi feng’s blog.
you are sad, i am depressed and bryan is trapped! what is life?
Two of you never confide to each other lately (since both of you are best friends and are straightforward persons)? Why not “help” each other to overcome?
Hope the three of us and all who are like us can come out of the terrible darkness soon. I wonder if I can because all the methods like positive thinking, etc don’t work at all now!!
Think more and more ppl are depressed, trapped, sad, blues….
on October 10th, 2007 at 3:51 pm
jia you!
on October 10th, 2007 at 4:39 pm
GOGOOGOGO!!!
bryan..gege
i feel sooo happy that you are overwhelmed!!!! (=
remember that we are your supporters..
we will support you!!!
whenever youre sad..remember us..
remember the smiles on our faces (=
smile (:
加油~
mari.
on October 10th, 2007 at 7:22 pm
“Life is really simple, but men insist on making it complicated.” Confucius
on October 11th, 2007 at 12:56 pm
Hi Bryan,
Hope u r feeling better by now…
Thou’ I do not know wat kind of unfavourable situation u r facing, but I always believe that we do not exist inthis world for nothing, dats 4 sure! We have our own purpose/calling to fulfill inthis life. Life has its ups and downs and we have to be trained to face all the challenges we have in our daily life.
Whenever how bad a siutation may be, it will not be BAD forever if u r willing 2 face it and solve it. If some1 has hurt u, dun do evil 2 evil but forgive them…is only thru forgiveness and love, then we r able 2 let go and thru’ let go, we will feel better and will not be trapped. I know is difficult but I believe if you believe n have faith in urself, u can do it!
We r not born onto the earth to feel depress, trapped n all kinds of bad emotion. Let’s fulfil our purpose, vision and our calling fruitfully in this life instead of dwelling into something dat does not benefit us but pleases those who wants us to fall.
Bryan, take care!
on October 11th, 2007 at 10:27 pm
Hey Bryan,
What are you filming recently? So excited to see Home Decor 3 next monday.
on October 11th, 2007 at 10:54 pm
Life is full of ups and downs. It’s so full of changes. We have to move on, no matter what. The world is still revolving and if we do not move on, we are just wasting time.
Even when we die, the world is still revolving. It will never stop for us.
So jiayou! I believe you can do it!
on October 12th, 2007 at 12:19 am
Yes we will all be “walking with you”! Jiayou!
on October 12th, 2007 at 3:30 pm
hello bryan,
how are you today? i just came back from a week-long overseas working trip, and i’m really shocked to see your previous entry. Wish i had the chance to drop by here earlier, but nonetheless i’m really really glad to know that you’re feeling better now and moving on. life has its ups and its downs, and like a friend of mine always says, “what does not kill you will make you stronger.”
no matter what happens, always keep in mind that we’ll be here with you every step along the way. 人间是有温情的… take care~ =)
on October 12th, 2007 at 6:02 pm
hi bryan! congrats on being nominated in top 20 most popular male artistes for star awards!
that’s something to cheer up about. jia you!
on October 13th, 2007 at 12:16 am
HI Bryan..
how are you feeling today?
Congrats that you are now a nominee running for Star Awards 2007 Most Popular Male Artiste award.
For the upcoming “Home Decor 3″, I have absolute full faith in you. I think for sure you will win Li Guohuang. Hahahaa….!!!!!!
on October 14th, 2007 at 4:06 am
Hi Bryan.
Stay happy please once you’re out of this trap.
(:
on October 14th, 2007 at 4:07 am
hi bryan, i think u may talk it out wif yifong. and maybe u can help her at the same time. she is quite depressed recently. come to think of it, she may help you to overcome depression. or maybe i am wrong -_-|||
anyway, there’s a lot of ppl giving u support, so dun be sad.
listen to happy songs, tt may help. or think of ppl who are worse than us, like ppl in africa or closer to home, myanmar. then we will be glad tt we are living in a better world than the others.
on October 14th, 2007 at 9:58 am
hey bryan. nice write up! you take really great pics as well; judging from your trip to Australia in a previous post.
anyway, really admire you as a person. whatever difficulties you face, whichever problems that may arise, there will always be a solution. just persevere and you will see light at the end of it. jia you!
on October 14th, 2007 at 5:27 pm
for everyone out there : “Peace of mind doesn’t come from having less problems – it comes from being less critical!”
life is full of ups n downs..we can cry, upset and almost give up…BUT never ever give up, if you give up, you got no chance to taste life again..
when depressed, talk to someone, do something to distract yourself, dun listen to those sad songs, dun think of past….depression sometimes might be here once a month…for 1-2 days..bear awhile…very soon you will be back to normal
know is not easy but we all can make it right 
encourage each other, support each other 
kan kai and expect lesser and we will be happier
on October 14th, 2007 at 11:09 pm
Hi bryan,
Had been reading yr blog… Great to know u are feeling better! Understand how u feel cos I’m trapped at times too! the feelings are horrible and scary and lost! But it depends on how u wanna help yourself. Don’t let yr mind control you. You control yr mind!
Had seen u quite a number of times…haha rem many years back, I was at the traffic light, I saw you in yr car. Saw u in shopping mall. Saw u in concert….
Take Care and God Bless!
on October 15th, 2007 at 1:04 pm
Heys,
Jia you kays?
oways think on the bright side?
hope u will be UN TRAPPED soonnnn alright?
on October 15th, 2007 at 2:42 pm
hey hey….
update more offen pls…
reading ur blog since last mth..:)
take care of urself…:P
hope u will be happy every single day..:PPP
on October 24th, 2007 at 12:08 pm
Hihi,
seems abit late to post this now. but i sincerely hope tat you are feeling alot better and be out of watever tat traps you sooner rather than later…
jia you jia you jia you!
@—->–
on October 31st, 2007 at 2:27 pm
Can I call this fate?
I dun hv 2 kw u personally yet I can b talking 2 u now.
Thanks 2 the computer.
人对己有恩，当十倍奉还。
拥有的要惜缘。
不是我讲的。
台湾明花园的歌仔戏天后孙翠凤说的。
Ya, I learnt a lot from her.
Life can nv b smooth. Life is just like a roller-coaster which makes us understand it even better. We learn 2 appreciate.